i heard from a really wise man that if he ever lost someone who meant the world to him, the only way he could deal with it..is to forget it ever happened. at first i thought it sounded wrong, but now i completely understand. it makes so much sense now. if you forget, you don’t experience the heart ache and the emotional distress, or the overwhelming thoughts over and over and over and over again..because sometimes those thoughts seem too powerful. i wish there was a way to save the good memories, and just fast forward through the after math. unfortunately, thats not how life works. but it would be cool if that was possible.